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« on: November 08, 2008, 11:31:10 AM »

There is a major problem within the nepal/pakistan/india/bangladesh communities when it comes to forced marriages. As myself i have seen many friends and contacts go through this ordeal. Boys and girls are blackmailed by their parents
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« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2008, 12:36:06 PM »

what we have solution for this?? what to do if parents are not likely to accept the one you love? what if everything is fine in your side, your parents accept your partner but his/her partner's parents are not ready to accept you, and what if he/she is unwilling to go against her parents to make your love successful?
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« Reply #2 on: November 12, 2008, 08:27:39 PM »

Love has to pass many test its well known fact, we've seen heard and read too.

Ya mostly in Asian country like Nepal, India, Pakistan we've seen plenty of such cases. Some couple  dare to go against parents decision and some not and sacrifice their love.

In some cases parent's are supportive too. But max case parents deny and loves breaks. So either go again'st parents or sacrifice love.

Ya most parents boycott the couple if they are marring against their permission. But in some cases  they accept them later.

Well after seeing few cases and reading few true story what i've found that.
1) Parents always want's their kids to choose same community girl/boy. [they are very strict to cast]
2) Girl/boy must be from good family.
3) Girl/boy must be well cultured, decent.
4) Boy must be earning good amount of money so that he can take care of girl w/o any pain.
5) Family background and history must be clean.

If above things matches then chances is high. Parents may accept boy/girl. Else tears in eyes.

So Asian Boys/Girl  think twice before loving hahahaha!! or else gather a courage to say NO to parents and prove them that yo u both are good couple[made for each other].







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« Reply #3 on: January 08, 2009, 07:41:34 PM »

Forced marriage is wrong........yaar I have seen many girls who were forced to marry in the kid.....ani ahile budi bhae pachi bigriya chan.
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