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« on: December 11, 2008, 08:59:52 AM »

Love Language

Do you know what "love languages" are? A Love Language is how someone wants to be shown love because it satisfies a deep-seated need.The four love languages are Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts and Physical Touch.

Quality : Time refers to spending time together as a couple. People who have this as their love language feel loved when they are taken out on special dates and gives time for the conversation

Others prefer Words of Affirmation as a way to be shown love. Telling your partner how you appreciate them, encouraging them, and general words of praise and acceptance all show your love.

If Gifts is your partner’s love language, then you need to understand that for them, gifts are not simply material objects -- they are expressions of your love.

Some people prefer Physical Touch as their love language. A simple touch on the arm, hug or backrub will convey your love to them.

Problems occur when partner do not recognize each other's love language and attempt to show love in ways that are less meaningful to the other partner. For example, consider if your partner has the love language of Quality, but you assume they would rather have gifts. They might be appreciative of your presents, but your love would be more obvious to them if you give your quality time for the conversation.

So find out what your partner's love language is and show them love in the ways that they can best understand.
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